I am completely convinced that hitting and spanking are definitely not effective forms of discipline, especially in the long run. In fact, I believe that hitting children is an act of violence and a clear violation of children’s human rights.
Everybody’s Doing It, So What’s the Problem?
I am very concerned about this problem because of its widespread use and acceptance in our culture.
Studies have shown us that:
- Approximately 2/3 of parents with children between 1 and 2 years of age use corporal punishment 
- 65% of children under 3 years of age have been spanked in the last month 
- 51% of high school students have been hit with a belt or similar object 
- 94% of parents admit to using some type of corporal punishment with their kids 
But does corporal punishment work? The short answer is a definite “no.” No studies to date have found any advantages in spanking a child. In fact, there is a long list of short- and long-term negative effects associated with it. 
- Depression, anxiety, stress
- Child aggression
- Child delinquent and antisocial behavior
- Poor quality of relationship between parent and child
- Child mental ability issues
- Risk of being a victim of physical abuse as an adult
- Adult aggression
- Potential for adult criminal and antisocial behavior
- Later adult mental health issues
- Risk of abusing own child or spouse
There are also new studies that link spanking, corporal punishment and physical abuse to health problems in adulthood, such as cancer, heart disease and chronic respiratory problems [8-10].
Despite the Harm It Causes, Corporal Punishment is Still Legal
Unfortunately, our legal system has a rather contradictory way of defining abuse and the use of corporal punishment. It is against the law to hit spouses, prisoners, criminals or other adults in the U.S. Ironically, it is still legal to hit children – at home, and even at school. The law in every state allows the use of “reasonable” corporal punishment. Federal law hasn’t banned its use in public and private schools, either. At the same, both state and federal law forbid serious non-accidental inflicted injuries, otherwise known as abuse.
Feel like something’s not right there? The UN Committee on the Rights of the Child agrees with you – it lists the uses of corporal punishment as a violation of children’s human rights.
Until our government’s laws can catch up with the standards the rest of the world has set, it’s up to every parent and caregiver to reject the use of corporal punishment on the children they know and love.
Looking for Constructive Forms of Discipline?
So you might be asking yourself, if spanking does not work, then what can or should I do when my children misbehave? Check back soon for my next post, where I’ll try to give some ideas of how to better discipline your child.
Let me end with this “food for thought”:
When a child hits a child, we call it aggression
When a child hits an adult, we call it hostility
When an adult hits an adult, we call it assault
When an adult hits a child, we call it discipline
-Haim G. Ginott
Norell Rosado, MD, is an attending physician in Lurie Children’s Department of Child Abuse Pediatrics. He is also an adjunct assistant professor of pediatrics-child abuse at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine.
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